Have you ever known someone who, just by their mere existence, and no fault of their own, made you feel like less of a success or that your life was somehow less than? Years ago I experienced that feeling which led to an important turning-point in my life. Let me start this story by saying, I don’t consider myself an envious person. Very rarely do I look at someone I know or come to know of and wish for what they have. That was, until I met HER. Let’s call her “Mandy” (cough …